White boys are the new pink
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Or so declares blog Crunk and Disorderly (I love this blog btw - and you will too if you’re a sucker for hip hop-related gossip!).
Trend Watch
Everyone from Diana Ross to Tyra Banks has one now. I’ve been thinking about trading mine in for one of the new models as well.
Just goes to show it’s not only the brothers who are dating interracially. You just don’t hear so much fuss about it when black women do the same.
Keya wrote:
Go Girls. I got me one too
Posted 28 Nov 2005 at 10:47 pm ¶
iwauynnjabelkeu wrote:
About time black men have been hitting it off with white women for the last 20 years
Posted 29 Nov 2005 at 5:55 pm ¶
dudette wrote:
“everyone” is a really general statement, there are not that many black actresses/ with white bfs and husbands.
Posted 29 Nov 2005 at 6:19 pm ¶
Nas wrote:
4get that I keep my manz mixed just like me!
Posted 30 Nov 2005 at 8:06 am ¶
tittz wrote:
Theres really nothing to it.
Posted 30 Nov 2005 at 8:38 am ¶
tony wrote:
As a mulatto, I can definetly agree when I see my women all in the arms of white men.
Posted 30 Nov 2005 at 12:48 pm ¶
sigrid wrote:
I wouldn’t say black men don’t have a problem with black women dating white men. I am mixed (black/white) and my bf is white and let me tell you we hear about it from black teenage boys and younger black men.
Posted 06 Dec 2005 at 1:47 pm ¶
RL_Model wrote:
I’m also biracial (half white, half black); have never and would never date a black guy, for a number of reasons, not the least of which is that I’m not physically attracted to them.
I agree with Sigrid, and it’s sad that she and her boyfriend and other WM-Biracial female couples receive such treatment from black guys, but it really says more about their insecure frame of mind than anything else. These are probably the same ones lusting after white women. How ironic.
Posted 07 Dec 2005 at 11:22 am ¶
another wrote:
To Sigrid & RL_Model:
Two more biracial “women” with white guys. Let me guess, you are attractive enough (for a “black girl”) for the white guys to like you? So typical …
Posted 08 Jan 2006 at 8:38 pm ¶
mimi wrote:
I think it’s stupid for a Black girl to have a white boyfriend only becasue he is white…. I find that so idiotic. However, black guys are known for having low self esteem and would run after a white girl( even if she was ugly). BEing that I am a light skinned black girl, I have noticed that dark skinned guys like mixed and white girls,,,they dont even like light skinned girls. Light skinned boys are most likely to go out with a darker skinned girl…however it is still rare. More and more white guys are liking black women but have you noticed that tyra is rich ,famous, and light skinned..i think people should look at that first….before they say white guys love black girls.
Posted 13 Jan 2006 at 9:25 pm ¶
Speechless wrote:
“… have never and would never … for a number of reasons … not the least of which …” You have a number of other reasons? How many other reasons?
I think it is clear from your statement above (”would never”) that there is only one reason: because they are black. Jeez, you sound like a white chick who was raised in the sticks by racist parents.
Posted 17 Jan 2006 at 11:06 am ¶
Katya wrote:
I am half black/ half white, and I have only ever dated white guys, it’s not that I’m not attracted to black guys I think it all depends on where you are raised, growing up I was only ever around very few black guys in a mostly white town. The black guys that did goto my school were very popular among the ladies. But I guess you could say I was raised as a white person would be raised, and white people in my oppinion are more accepting of inter-racial dating than blacks, not to say that there arent racist white people because DUH of course there are, however i find that more black people than white, are living in the old ages and beleiveing that black should date black.
Posted 18 Feb 2006 at 4:09 am ¶
Speechless wrote:
Katya, the black guys in your school were popular among the ladies, but they didn’t cut it for you because you were raised as a white person?? Do you really believe that whites are more accepting of IR dating? They really have you fooled. Here’s the truth, as a general rule, white families have a double-standard. They will accept their SONS “dating” women of any race but, when it comes to actual dating/marrying, only white will suffice, or perhaps women from any other ethnic group except for black (but they see mixed women as an exception). On the other hand, when it comes to their DAUGHTERS, white families will not accept ANY guy who is non-white. Over time, these unspoken social rules are ingrained in white childrens’ heads through subtle breakfast-table banter and the like. They appear to you to be more accepting simply because white guys have dated YOU (but remember, you are the mixed-chick exception).
It comes down to this: whites will pick and choose “exceptions” from what they view as the “lesser” races; at the same time, they have trained their own to not stray from the herd. It’s not black people who are living in the old ages. Those who are wise enough to recognize the racist white double-standard see it as unfair, and are reacting to it. Their position is simply that you (as one of their “exceptions”) should be smart enough to not play into their hands.
How many white guys do you know who have a gf from another race/ethnic group who are normal (attractive, popular, non-ghetto)? How many of them are black (not mixed)? How many are mixed? How many of them have met the white family? the other family?
How many of the sought-after black guys you mentioned have white girlfriends who are normal (attractive, popular, non-ghetto)? How many of these white girlfriends (if any) have brought the black boyfriend home to meet the family? How many have met the bfs family?
Posted 25 Feb 2006 at 2:21 pm ¶
My2cents wrote:
If there is one thing I have learned about interracial dating rules, it’s that exceptionally attractive black or mixed girls tend to date white guys only.
Posted 31 Mar 2006 at 11:43 am ¶
Proud Black Man wrote:
For your information..bitches..whitemen have been fucking black women since slavery.
Let’s see if any of them marry you. Unless you’re rich like Tyra or Halle.
Posted 09 Apr 2006 at 11:34 pm ¶
wow wrote:
In Response to Proud Black man:
Cold man…just cold. Hey…go latina man. They are the new Black woman.
Posted 12 May 2006 at 3:59 pm ¶
"Nothing New" or "Something New" wrote:
I say “nothing new”. It’s only recently that Black men have caught em to the sexing, dating, mistressing level of Black women with others. C’mon now…pick up a history book once and awhile. Its “Something new” for us but “nothing new” for you felines.
Posted 12 May 2006 at 4:06 pm ¶
Average Joe wrote:
ive found that most black girls do like white guys, i dont know just do. i asked a black girl in school(in my last year DW) if she would every date/one night stand/marry and white guy and she said ” i would but my dad would probably kill me or u” so maybe in some cases black girls do want to date white guys but cant. same with white girls and black guys.
Posted 14 May 2006 at 2:47 am ¶
Sexy gurl wrote:
heyy im darker brown skinned how ever iM Guyanese, South American whose great grand mother was a Saphardic Jew from Spain nd whose great great grandma from my mothers side was Portuguese. I am all for ineracial dating…I dat black guys white guys chinese guys spanish guys….i dont see race once the boy is cute and had a great personality…..Thats how it should be. Where all human what does it matter how dark light tanned or red your skin color is.
Posted 21 May 2006 at 5:36 pm ¶
Anonymous wrote:
i am of mixed race and being treated better by black guys than white boys…
usually the black guys make some funny comments but i know they are not looking at my skin.
i wasnt raised in the united states, i was raised in europe…
no white guys treated me bad over there…only when i came here i saw a lot of racism..especially from white guys because i wasnt “white enough” what kind of messed up s**t is this?!
Posted 04 Jul 2006 at 12:41 am ¶
xx_sofia wrote:
i’m a mixed girl myself, my dad’s 75 percent black and a quarter italian and my mom’s half spanish half italian. My mom doesn’t like black guys cause she thinks blacks aren’t that attractive and are mostly ugly. She onl married my dad cause she was forced by her parents and cause my dad’s got a good business and he’s got money. My mom said good thing i didn’t turn out too black cause she thinks i’d look really ugly. But that’s defenitely not true bcause not all blac women are ugly
Posted 05 Jul 2006 at 5:33 pm ¶
blessed wrote:
“Not all black women are ugly” … What is wrong with our society! I am a black female my mom comes from a line of southern blacks and my father is hispanic (panamanian). What really upsets me is how people try to dilute their “blackness” by stating every race and nationality under the moon. for ex. “i’m 1/10 spanish, 1/50 Japanese, 1/8 white…” Give it a rest! Every black woman that I have ever know has been as beautiful as any white woman. In fact, men from all walks of life and all races approach me on a daily basis and try to take me out. And guess what … my skin is brown, not yellow or pink. White men often stop in their tracks and will overlook a multitude of attractive white women and stare me down like there is no tomorrow. (White women dont like this). Anyway…the solution to our problem, in my opinion, is to detach ourselves from the foolish idea that true beauty consists of being as light as possible, a size 2, 5′10 tall etc. Need I say more. What year are we in again. As a non-baised beautiful black female, I find white men, asian men, hispanic men, black men, (u name it race) men attractive. How dare anyone make a decision not to date a race based on an imprudent stereotype. I think that black men are great and they treat women great. Let’s be real and face it … there are good men and bad men, race has absolutely nothing to do with it. Please dont make excuses for your racism. And it is sad because inadvertedly you are saying that you are invaluable by trying to be as “nonblack” as possible. From my experience, and most experts would agree with me, most men period are insecure, not just black men. Get your facts straight. So there are those who secretly believe that they are inadequate for being mixed and become racist. Then there are those people who say that race doesnt matter and yet care to much about what social pressure and wont date a particular race. Then there are those, like me, who refuse to conform to social pressure and date whoever treats you like royalty … In the end it all comes down to love … and love my dear, has no color.
Posted 16 Jul 2006 at 12:38 pm ¶
chocolate lover wrote:
I am a athletic white guy who is very attractive and absolutely love black woman…. sorry they rule!… They have the best asses and the best bodies and the best smiles… and I like their firey attitudes!
Posted 17 Aug 2006 at 3:32 pm ¶
Johnny P wrote:
As the population of the US become more “darker” you are going to see interracial relationships explode. As the white population drops, whites will assume the role of an “exotic” race and many will be attracted to white people just for the simple fact that they are not the norm in society anymore.
It’s all based on the normal human curiosity for something or someone who is different.
Posted 05 Sep 2006 at 5:40 am ¶
Joe Marr wrote:
I think it is really a matter of taste, I would say the majority of black guys have a lower self esteem and to many of them it is an accomplishment to date a white girl! White guys don’t go out of their way and put all their concentration on dating black girls, if it happened great, but they don’t spend as much energy planning it.
White girls are different, the majority of white girls who date black guys usually come out of a relationship that did not work with a non-black person and that makes them look like they are unwanted by white guys any lomger, this may or may not be true, but this is how things are looked at in our society today.
Howmany black girls are able to date white guys after their relationship with a black man did not work? I ‘ll leave you with this.
Posted 19 Sep 2006 at 6:51 pm ¶
Alex wrote:
I’m white and I love black girls. I´ve dated some black girls and it was always fantastic. And I really don´t care what others think about it.
Posted 20 Sep 2006 at 6:21 pm ¶